The ol’ sex life has been a touch slow lately. Not non-existent, just slow. We’re under stress lately, both me and the wife. Unemployment, money issues, and periodic colds and mild illnesses that just bring us down. I’m still nearly constantly eager to fuck but I’m often lacking the motivation to make it happen. I’ll offer and she won’t be interested. Sometimes she’ll be into it and then something will screw it up half way through. It’s frustrating as this has been the way of things most of the last year. I’m hoping we can soon get back to that place we’ve been at before where the stress and pressures aren’t killing our sex drives.
I’ve also thought a few times about us bringing in someone else again. We’ve had a couple of threesome experiences. They were fun. I think we’re both a little interested in doing it again. We’ve mentioned it. I think it would be fun to get into it again. Not on a regular basis but as a treat, I guess you could call it. Treat ourselves to another person we can pleasure and can pleasure us. Male or female, right now I’d go for either. We’ve never brought another guy in, though.
Truth is I might prefer a guy right now. It’s been years since I’ve had dick and I enjoyed it. I enjoyed handling it. I enjoyed sucking it. I think if we found a guy who wouldn’t mind getting head while my wife watched or who would want head from both of us that could be fun. Maybe he can suck me off while the wife blows him? Maybe I can suck him off while she blows me? Maybe he can get it from her while I fuck her from behind? Maybe we can flip that around and I can get sucked while she gets fucked by him? Not sure how I’d feel about that. Maybe I could just watch them fuck? That might be interesting. Maybe she can sit on one of our faces while the other sucks him off? I might have to reserve that spot just for me. I love eating my wife’s pussy.
Hell, I just love eating pussy.
Maybe we should find a woman? That’s worked out in the past. I love working two pussies at a time. Love getting my cock sucked while my wife teases the other woman. Love having someone there watching me get sucked by or fuck my wife. Might be fun to fuck another woman while she watches. I don’t know if she’d be down for it or if I’d be down for it.
Maybe we need another couple. Or if they’re not a couple at least two people who want to get it on with us. A little bit of everything. More cocks, more pussies, more tits and more of everything to enjoy.
Or not. I don’t know. This can be more fun to think about than to execute. Maybe the wife’s not really that into the idea (in the past her interest has tended to fluctuate from very interested to completely hating the idea).
Anyway, I was just thinking about that this morning. Anyone out there in Tumblr land want to get in on it?
debaucheddiva:
Of course its immoral
I personally think that paying women/girls to have actual sex on camera (as opposed to pretending) should be illegal unless the she is married to the man she is having sex with, and she gets (at the very least) substantial royalties from all proceeds. Making porn is an incredibly stupid thing for most women/girls to do, unless they retain ALL ownership of the copyrights themselves. It is moronic to sell someone else the right to own and distribute your (nude) images, especially when your in such a highly vulnerable situation. What if you decide you are embarrassed later? What if you don’t want your scene spliced into a clip show along side other scenes that you find repugnant. A parent who is making movies that depict highly destructive personal behavior as fun ARE unfit parents. How about a Mom who makes a movie about how much fun it is to be a heroin junkie? Or the fun of being a mobster. Depicting evil behavior as fun/exciting/rewarding in a movie your child might see DOES make you an unfit parent. I am not saying having sex is evil or wrong, but having casual, unsafe sex with strangers definitely is (at the very least) stupid as hell, which is what most porn movies are full of. I have no problem watching married people physically express their love for each other, and though a kid might not enjoy seeing it, at least he won’t be mentally scarred for life if the feelings involved are loving ones. Seeing his mom depicted as a sex toy for depraved sex junkies probably would mess him/her up big time!This was a comment left on Mommy does Dallas on Salon.com.
What a wonderfully insightful comment! Ha. I don’t respect this perspective. “If you represent in entertainment something that is wrong or that I consider wrong you are a bad person.” Then that only married people should do porn. That’s just weird. Who wants to see married people do porn together? That’s not fulfilling most people’s fantasies. Part of the fun of porn is watching people have that sex you have naughty little fantasies about. Like having sex with that hot professor or cheerleader or random woman or man in random career field. That sex you’re not going to get.
Also, the comment fixates on women as the only people involved in porn. What about male performers? What about non-hetero productions? This is a very limited opinion of how porn is produced and its effect on potential viewers. Another reason I don’t respect this perspective.
In the end why must these people insist that what they think is good must be what I consume? I want to consume bad things, damn it! I want movies about mobsters and junkies. I want porn with hot teachers, cheerleaders, and busty over-sexed bosses boffing their boy-toy employees. You go have your clean fun and let those of us who want it continue to have our naughty bad times.
I never gave a blow job.
I never had protected sex. (I havent had sex)
I never fingered another person.
I never had anal sex.
I never went to Disney World.
I never been out of my home country.
I never kissed a stranger on the lips.
I never read a book over eight hundred pages.
I never painted a picture on a canvas.
I never sang in front of a large crowd by myself.
I never ate out a girl.
I never have seen another girl completely naked (besides tv + family).
I never had braces.
I never learned German.
I never watched legit porn.
I never masturbated in front of someone.
I never had a fight with my dad.
I never updated my myspace status through my phone.
I never had my myspace deleted for being underaged.
I never used Nair.
I never had cut my wrists.
I never wanted plastic surgery.
I never did another sexual position besides missionary. (I am a virgin)
I never ate goat meat.
I never ate horse meat.
I never drank goat’s milk.
I never drank organic regular milk.
I never had a girlfriend.
I never kissed another girl (besides the cheek).
I never learned Chinese.
I never blew up a balloon.
I never changed a baby’s diaper.
I never lost my phone for good.
I never lost a friend through death.
I never met one of my grandparent’s.
I never met someone with my exact name.
I never dated someone with red hair.
I never put on eyeliner for myself.
I never took a dance class.
I never used a tampon larger than regular.
I never tried weed.
I never tried most drugs (on purpose).
I never cooked dinner for my family.
I never had anything besides my ears pierced.(no piercings at all)
I never had a tattoo.
I never went to the beach to tan.
I never kissed anyone on the lips that was younger than me.
I never dumped someone (besides mutual break ups).
I never stepped in something nasty barefooted.
I never cheated on someone.
I never waxed anything (besides eyebrows) on my body.
I never dyed my whole head a different color.
I never kissed anyone on the cheek that was above the age of seventeen. (besides the cheek/family.)
I never kissed in the rain.
I never mixed alcohols together.
I never shot a gun at an animal.
I never gone a day without laughing (as far as I know).
I never got held back a grade.
I never been hit on by a girl in person.
I never ate my boogers in public.
I never stolen anything over twenty dollars.
I never had sex at school.
killingbambi:
digitalbath:
catt-:
hopelessromance:
haha this is interesting.
anotherangle:
Did you know guys that cummin over a woman’s face is the most unsexy thing you could do to your lady.It has NEVER turned me on, in fact it makes me feel quite sick how a guy could do that to a girl. Why the porn industry created this disgusting act is beyond me?. Anal sex is also a complete fantasy and dangerous physical act ,its only porn actresses wannabes do it and no other woman, its an illusion guys and its totally disrespectfull to any woman.
Besides its not a turn on for the majority of decent guys in this world. Its an illiusion created by the porn industry, which quite frankly hasn’t changed much in all the years Ive been ..ahem ..”reading” and looking at sexy stuff.
So come on you porn barons and greedy bastards, lets see a touch of art in your hardcore without these beautifull faces covered in goo, or a guys cock covered in shit…its not nice at all….
I will give you that these are significantly less broad interests than the porn industry would suggest. Not every woman wants to have anal sex and coming on her face is not appealing to a lot of women. I think it’s safe to say that most women are not interested in these things. Also, most men are not that interested in these beyond the taboo.
However, I think you too broadly attribute your opinions and are overly derisive of those who engage in these acts you find distasteful. In my own meager experiences I’ve encountered women interested in either or both of these. Most often it is a matter of it having to be the right situation with the right person. People have a lot more flexibility in getting down and dirty than you seem to give them credit for.
So, the other night I was doing a casting session for a short I’ll be shooting next week. I spent 3 hours talking to 14 different women. It was fun but it was also surprisingly exhausting. By the end of the night I was damn near dead on my feet.
Anyway, during casting, I had two instances of having to bite my tongue. I’m a pervert. This is a known quantity. So, when I was sitting across from one actress with significant, though I suspect fake, cleavage and she said “Also, I’m okay with nudity” I had to try hard not to say “I see, can you show me?” I am a simple minded young man.
Then, probably two interviews later, a tall young woman enters in a long coat. She explains she can take off the coat but all she’s wearing underneath are a bra and shorts, because she spilled on herself earlier. I sat there silently reminding myself “Don’t say ‘I’m afraid you’ll need to remove the coat.’ Don’t say ‘I’m afraid you’ll need to remove the coat.’ Don’t say ‘I’m afraid you’ll need to remove the coat.’”
I get probably an undeserved sense of pride in myself when I don’t let the voice in my head say the things likely to get me slapped. I did it twice, while tired, and in two tempting situations back to back (nearly).
By the way, I didn’t go with either actress for my short.
Yeah … and I don’t mean like a little amateur thing. I think I’d like to direct, just once, a porn. I would do it all wrong too. It would have a plot that took up more than 20 minutes. You wouldn’t get every conceivable position in every sex scene. It would be messy and sweaty and dirty. It would be high contrast and grainy. The acting would be terrible.
It would be awesome.
Unfortunately, I know less about making a porno than I would about making a normal indie flick. So, it will probably never happen. Still, I’d like to do it.
sexfantasy:
I guess I wouldn’t call myself bi-sexual. More like bi-curious. Bi-sexual is the step after that.
If you’re a bi-sexual, wouldn’t threesomes be your ultimate fantasy?
I want to have a threesome so bad. The thought of a cock in my pussy and a pussy in my mouth … I’m fucking wet.
I don’t think you’re wrong. Ahh the possibilities: A cock in your mouth and a mouth on your pussy? Or a pussy in your mouth and mouth on your pussy? Your mouth on a pussy as a cock pulls out? A mouth on your pussy while you watch a cock in a mouth? I think there’s the appeal of the threesome (and more) … it’s the wealth of possibilities for naughty parts interactions …
Personally, I will confess to the occasional desire to not just have my cock in a pussy and my mouth on a pussy (or some variation there-on) but my desire to have a cock in my mouth while my cock’s in a mouth (or pussy). Or my cock in a mouth watching a cock in a pussy. Or further variations.
Ahem … I seem to have something I need to go take care of now.
sexfantasy:
about having a crazy threesome with a woman and her boyfriend. Thats the only way I could do it, with a couple I don’t know. Hot, heavy, semi-anonymous.
Think about it. If you do it with a friend, you’re changing that friendship to something sexual. But if you start out the aquaintance as purely sexual, then there’s really no guilt to be had….
unless you’re really religious.
but I’m not.
So I am taking control of my sex life. I am going to find a couple to have a threesome with.
Of course, I’m going to tell you about it.
I tend to be of the same mind that with a friend that could get awkward. Not that I am by any stretch an expert on the subject or particularly acquainted with the activity but it seems that if you’re in it for sex then just be in it for the sex and don’t let it change an existing relationship that works. Maybe those with more experience have a more informed perspective and would disagree. It just seems like getting down with that with a friend is inviting a mess.
annaliese:
listen— if you are really smart and you are dating someone who is really stupid then you need to take heed from ice cube and check yourself. it is pretty much your DUTY to do evolution a favor and not fuck up the potential of your genes to contribute to a future generation by muddling up your smart DNA with not smart DNA.
the same applies to your physical appearance.. if you are gorgeous then go on with your bad self and date amongst the gorgeous. this isn’t shallow. it’s science. it is your duty to beget more gorgeousness.
don’t sell yourself short!
i am going to start a eugenics program.
Please … no one tell my wife this … I’d really prefer it if she didn’t realize how too good for me she is.
