Dirty Thoughts

Thu, 22 Oct 2009 10:02:39 -0400

The ol’ sex life has been a touch slow lately. Not non-existent, just slow. We’re under stress lately, both me and the wife. Unemployment, money issues, and periodic colds and mild illnesses that just bring us down. I’m still nearly constantly eager to fuck but I’m often lacking the motivation to make it happen. I’ll offer and she won’t be interested. Sometimes she’ll be into it and then something will screw it up half way through. It’s frustrating as this has been the way of things most of the last year. I’m hoping we can soon get back to that place we’ve been at before where the stress and pressures aren’t killing our sex drives.

I’ve also thought a few times about us bringing in someone else again. We’ve had a couple of threesome experiences. They were fun. I think we’re both a little interested in doing it again. We’ve mentioned it. I think it would be fun to get into it again. Not on a regular basis but as a treat, I guess you could call it. Treat ourselves to another person we can pleasure and can pleasure us. Male or female, right now I’d go for either. We’ve never brought another guy in, though.

Truth is I might prefer a guy right now. It’s been years since I’ve had dick and I enjoyed it. I enjoyed handling it. I enjoyed sucking it. I think if we found a guy who wouldn’t mind getting head while my wife watched or who would want head from both of us that could be fun. Maybe he can suck me off while the wife blows him? Maybe I can suck him off while she blows me? Maybe he can get it from her while I fuck her from behind? Maybe we can flip that around and I can get sucked while she gets fucked by him? Not sure how I’d feel about that. Maybe I could just watch them fuck? That might be interesting. Maybe she can sit on one of our faces while the other sucks him off? I might have to reserve that spot just for me. I love eating my wife’s pussy.

Hell, I just love eating pussy.

Maybe we should find a woman? That’s worked out in the past. I love working two pussies at a time. Love getting my cock sucked while my wife teases the other woman. Love having someone there watching me get sucked by or fuck my wife. Might be fun to fuck another woman while she watches. I don’t know if she’d be down for it or if I’d be down for it.

Maybe we need another couple. Or if they’re not a couple at least two people who want to get it on with us. A little bit of everything. More cocks, more pussies, more tits and more of everything to enjoy.

Or not. I don’t know. This can be more fun to think about than to execute. Maybe the wife’s not really that into the idea (in the past her interest has tended to fluctuate from very interested to completely hating the idea).

Anyway, I was just thinking about that this morning. Anyone out there in Tumblr land want to get in on it?

iprocrastinate: 9gag: Porn Habits Timeline I appear to be...

Wed, 30 Sep 2009 09:38:52 -0400

iprocrastinate:

9gag:

Porn Habits Timeline

I appear to be stuck somewhere between College and Post College (Dating). Not sure if that’s good or bad.

WTF Comment of the Day

Sun, 12 Jul 2009 12:51:47 -0400

debaucheddiva:

Of course its immoral

I personally think that paying women/girls to have actual sex on camera (as opposed to pretending) should be illegal unless the she is married to the man she is having sex with, and she gets (at the very least) substantial royalties from all proceeds. Making porn is an incredibly stupid thing for most women/girls to do, unless they retain ALL ownership of the copyrights themselves. It is moronic to sell someone else the right to own and distribute your (nude) images, especially when your in such a highly vulnerable situation. What if you decide you are embarrassed later? What if you don’t want your scene spliced into a clip show along side other scenes that you find repugnant. A parent who is making movies that depict highly destructive personal behavior as fun ARE unfit parents. How about a Mom who makes a movie about how much fun it is to be a heroin junkie? Or the fun of being a mobster. Depicting evil behavior as fun/exciting/rewarding in a movie your child might see DOES make you an unfit parent. I am not saying having sex is evil or wrong, but having casual, unsafe sex with strangers definitely is (at the very least) stupid as hell, which is what most porn movies are full of. I have no problem watching married people physically express their love for each other, and though a kid might not enjoy seeing it, at least he won’t be mentally scarred for life if the feelings involved are loving ones. Seeing his mom depicted as a sex toy for depraved sex junkies probably would mess him/her up big time!This was a comment left on Mommy does Dallas on Salon.com.

What a wonderfully insightful comment! Ha. I don’t respect this perspective. “If you represent in entertainment something that is wrong or that I consider wrong you are a bad person.” Then that only married people should do porn. That’s just weird. Who wants to see married people do porn together? That’s not fulfilling most people’s fantasies. Part of the fun of porn is watching people have that sex you have naughty little fantasies about. Like having sex with that hot professor or cheerleader or random woman or man in random career field. That sex you’re not going to get.

Also, the comment fixates on women as the only people involved in porn. What about male performers? What about non-hetero productions? This is a very limited opinion of how porn is produced and its effect on potential viewers. Another reason I don’t respect this perspective.

In the end why must these people insist that what they think is good must be what I consume? I want to consume bad things, damn it! I want movies about mobsters and junkies. I want porn with hot teachers, cheerleaders, and busty over-sexed bosses boffing their boy-toy employees. You go have your clean fun and let those of us who want it continue to have our naughty bad times.

bold what is true {thisisaweirdquiz}

Wed, 01 Jul 2009 09:24:00 -0400

I never gave a blow job.
I never had protected sex. (I havent had sex)
I never fingered another person.
I never had anal sex.
I never went to Disney World.
I never been out of my home country.
I never kissed a stranger on the lips.
I never read a book over eight hundred pages.
I never painted a picture on a canvas.
I never sang in front of a large crowd by myself.
I never ate out a girl.
I never have seen another girl completely naked (besides tv + family).
I never had braces.
I never learned German.
I never watched legit porn.
I never masturbated in front of someone.
I never had a fight with my dad.
I never updated my myspace status through my phone.
I never had my myspace deleted for being underaged.
I never used Nair.
I never had cut my wrists.
I never wanted plastic surgery.
I never did another sexual position besides missionary. (I am a virgin)
I never ate goat meat.
I never ate horse meat.
I never drank goat’s milk.
I never drank organic regular milk.
I never had a girlfriend.
I never kissed another girl (besides the cheek).
I never learned Chinese.
I never blew up a balloon.
I never changed a baby’s diaper.
I never lost my phone for good.
I never lost a friend through death.
I never met one of my grandparent’s.
I never met someone with my exact name.
I never dated someone with red hair.
I never put on eyeliner for myself.
I never took a dance class.
I never used a tampon larger than regular.
I never tried weed.
I never tried most drugs (on purpose).
I never cooked dinner for my family.
I never had anything besides my ears pierced.(no piercings at all)
I never had a tattoo.
I never went to the beach to tan.
I never kissed anyone on the lips that was younger than me.
I never dumped someone (besides mutual break ups).
I never stepped in something nasty barefooted.
I never cheated on someone.
I never waxed anything (besides eyebrows) on my body.
I never dyed my whole head a different color.
I never kissed anyone on the cheek that was above the age of seventeen. (besides the cheek/family.)
I never kissed in the rain.
I never mixed alcohols together.
I never shot a gun at an animal.
I never gone a day without laughing (as far as I know).
I never got held back a grade.
I never been hit on by a girl in person.
I never ate my boogers in public.
I never stolen anything over twenty dollars.
I never had sex at school.

killingbambi:

digitalbath:

catt-:

hopelessromance:

haha this is interesting.

porn industry fantasy

Wed, 17 Jun 2009 08:15:32 -0400

anotherangle:

Did you know guys that cummin over a woman’s face is the most unsexy thing you could do to your lady.It has NEVER turned me on, in fact it makes me feel quite sick how a guy could do that to a girl. Why the porn industry created this disgusting act is beyond me?. Anal sex is also a complete fantasy and dangerous physical act ,its only porn actresses wannabes do it and no other woman, its an illusion guys and its totally disrespectfull to any woman.

Besides its not a turn on for the majority of decent guys in this world. Its an illiusion created by the porn industry, which quite frankly hasn’t changed much in all the years Ive been ..ahem ..”reading” and looking at sexy stuff.

So come on you porn barons and greedy bastards, lets see a touch of art in your hardcore without these beautifull faces covered in goo, or a guys cock covered in shit…its not nice at all….

I will give you that these are significantly less broad interests than the porn industry would suggest. Not every woman wants to have anal sex and coming on her face is not appealing to a lot of women. I think it’s safe to say that most women are not interested in these things. Also, most men are not that interested in these beyond the taboo.

However, I think you too broadly attribute your opinions and are overly derisive of those who engage in these acts you find distasteful. In my own meager experiences I’ve encountered women interested in either or both of these. Most often it is a matter of it having to be the right situation with the right person. People have a lot more flexibility in getting down and dirty than you seem to give them credit for.

Behaved Myself

Fri, 05 Jun 2009 08:03:50 -0400

So, the other night I was doing a casting session for a short I’ll be shooting next week. I spent 3 hours talking to 14 different women. It was fun but it was also surprisingly exhausting. By the end of the night I was damn near dead on my feet.

Anyway, during casting, I had two instances of having to bite my tongue. I’m a pervert. This is a known quantity. So, when I was sitting across from one actress with significant, though I suspect fake, cleavage and she said “Also, I’m okay with nudity” I had to try hard not to say “I see, can you show me?” I am a simple minded young man.

Then, probably two interviews later, a tall young woman enters in a long coat. She explains she can take off the coat but all she’s wearing underneath are a bra and shorts, because she spilled on herself earlier. I sat there silently reminding myself “Don’t say ‘I’m afraid you’ll need to remove the coat.’ Don’t say ‘I’m afraid you’ll need to remove the coat.’ Don’t say ‘I’m afraid you’ll need to remove the coat.’”

I get probably an undeserved sense of pride in myself when I don’t let the voice in my head say the things likely to get me slapped. I did it twice, while tired, and in two tempting situations back to back (nearly).

By the way, I didn’t go with either actress for my short.

I want to make a porno

Mon, 25 May 2009 15:12:30 -0400

Yeah … and I don’t mean like a little amateur thing. I think I’d like to direct, just once, a porn. I would do it all wrong too. It would have a plot that took up more than 20 minutes. You wouldn’t get every conceivable position in every sex scene. It would be messy and sweaty and dirty. It would be high contrast and grainy. The acting would be terrible.

It would be awesome.

Unfortunately, I know less about making a porno than I would about making a normal indie flick. So, it will probably never happen. Still, I’d like to do it.

Late night thoughts.

Sat, 16 May 2009 14:40:46 -0400

sexfantasy:

I guess I wouldn’t call myself bi-sexual. More like bi-curious. Bi-sexual is the step after that.

If you’re a bi-sexual, wouldn’t threesomes be your ultimate fantasy?

I want to have a threesome so bad. The thought of a cock in my pussy and a pussy in my mouth … I’m fucking wet.

I don’t think you’re wrong. Ahh the possibilities: A cock in your mouth and a mouth on your pussy? Or a pussy in your mouth and mouth on your pussy? Your mouth on a pussy as a cock pulls out? A mouth on your pussy while you watch a cock in a mouth? I think there’s the appeal of the threesome (and more) … it’s the wealth of possibilities for naughty parts interactions …

Personally, I will confess to the occasional desire to not just have my cock in a pussy and my mouth on a pussy (or some variation there-on) but my desire to have a cock in my mouth while my cock’s in a mouth (or pussy). Or my cock in a mouth watching a cock in a pussy. Or further variations.

Ahem … I seem to have something I need to go take care of now.

I keep thinking...

Sat, 16 May 2009 14:34:17 -0400

sexfantasy:

about having a crazy threesome with a woman and her boyfriend. Thats the only way I could do it, with a couple I don’t know. Hot, heavy, semi-anonymous.

Think about it. If you do it with a friend, you’re changing that friendship to something sexual. But if you start out the aquaintance as purely sexual, then there’s really no guilt to be had….

unless you’re really religious.

but I’m not.

So I am taking control of my sex life. I am going to find a couple to have a threesome with.

Of course, I’m going to tell you about it.

I tend to be of the same mind that with a friend that could get awkward. Not that I am by any stretch an expert on the subject or particularly acquainted with the activity but it seems that if you’re in it for sex then just be in it for the sex and don’t let it change an existing relationship that works. Maybe those with more experience have a more informed perspective and would disagree. It just seems like getting down with that with a friend is inviting a mess.

at risk of sounding extremely shallow...

Wed, 22 Apr 2009 10:56:35 -0400

annaliese:

listen— if you are really smart and you are dating someone who is really stupid then you need to take heed from ice cube and check yourself. it is pretty much your DUTY to do evolution a favor and not fuck up the potential of your genes to contribute to a future generation by muddling up your smart DNA with not smart DNA.

the same applies to your physical appearance.. if you are gorgeous then go on with your bad self and date amongst the gorgeous. this isn’t shallow. it’s science. it is your duty to beget more gorgeousness.

don’t sell yourself short!

i am going to start a eugenics program.

Please … no one tell my wife this … I’d really prefer it if she didn’t realize how too good for me she is.

Fleshbot - Pink Visual Puts The "Box" In Boxee - Boxee

Thu, 16 Apr 2009 20:11:07 -0400

Fleshbot - Pink Visual Puts The "Box" In Boxee - Boxee:

cool … forward thinking … I might have to put Boxee back on my AppleTV.

bendmeover: Second one of these I have gotten for a picture I...

Tue, 14 Apr 2009 19:01:46 -0400

bendmeover:

Second one of these I have gotten for a picture I posted on Bend Me Over. :(

What’s odd to me is that I got the picture from a blogspot blog, Erotic Garden, who I’m sure got it from somewhere else, how far do you have to go to get absolutely everything of yours removed off the web? And if you posted it on the internet in the first place and I gave you credit for your photo, what is the big deal? I know… I know… it’s their work, but I am just confused by this action sometimes.

Photographers who may find this site and want me to remove a picture: email me @ bend.me.over7 at gmail and I will gladly remove your photo.

Never gotten one of these emails myself but I’ve had a few comments on posts over at blogoporno asking me to take down a photo. I’m cool with that. I tend to be pretty quick to respond to those requests because I don’t really feel like making any trouble. I’m lazy. Very lazy.

I probably would be less comfortable with getting an email from tumblr that someone complained. That would be pretty annoying with an email address clearly posted on the site. I think that copyright owners should contact the tumblr in question first before escalating to tumblr support. Meh. Just seems like a nice way to go about it.

borderlineporn: Super COOL Stress Reliever via...

Fri, 13 Mar 2009 11:22:24 -0400

borderlineporn:

Super COOL Stress Reliever

via designyoutrust.com

My wife got me two of these (they come in pairs) about a year ago for my birthday. They are kind of fun but I felt like I couldn’t squeeze them too hard or they would rupture. That was particularly true after we discovered one had a tiny hole and was leaking whatever water-like stuff they fill it with. Still, very groovy stress reliever.

More on politicized pubic hair

Fri, 13 Mar 2009 10:45:11 -0400

nightmarebrunette:

I’m an avowed fan of furry pussy, but I’m frustrated by these tired claims that a lack of hair renders a woman pre-pubescent looking. Since porn is so often credited with kicking off the fervor for female shaving, it might be helpful to recognize that shaved pussy in porn relates to visibility issues, not infantilization of all performers. (Admittedly, it serves dual purposes for the barely legal crew, who—it bears repeating—are often of advanced legality.)

I had a customer once tell me he reminded me of his daughter. According to him, she was eight years old, and he wanted to spend his session calling me by her name, pretending he was cajoling me/her into sitting on his lap, etc. For the aforementioned visibility, I kept myself totally shaved for the majority of my time on webcam. However, I’m 5’10” with large breasts, distinct hips, and woman’s voice. The idea that I’m reminiscent of anyone below the most mature sixteen year old is laughable. I don’t believe he was telling me the truth; much of what customers said on webcam was designed primarily to provoke a strong reaction whether it was positive or negative. And he succeeded in making me deeply uncomfortable.

Avid shavers generally promote the feel of being bare far more often than they do the look. Furthermore, if you believe a woman’s age is indicated by nothing more than her pubic hair, aren’t you suggesting by extension that a fifteen year old with a bush convincingly passes as an adult? Why is this argument not extended to men who shave their pubic hair? I’ve never heard a woman (or man) accused of being a pedophile when she or he says they like their male partner shaved.

There are plenty of ways to promote pubes that will win more hearts and minds than name calling. For instance: visual evidence.

Interesting. I’m inclined towards a woman with pubic hair. Groomed but still present. I try to groom my own but won’t be shaving it off any time soon (I’m a hairy bastard it would look weird to just shave my groinal area). I’ve made the pre-pubescent argument but never really thought about the visibility issues. It’s a good point. Still, in porn I do like a bit of hair because I’ve been with shaved and I’ve been with groomed and I much prefer groomed so the non-shaved works better for my fantasies.

Anyway, just wanted to share this because I thought it was an interesting point that had never crossed my mind (like so many interesting points).

Dear Porn Industry,

Thu, 12 Mar 2009 10:32:09 -0400

Yep. Agree with the points made below. I know this sounds silly based on what I post normally on blogoporno but the overall quality of hardcore porn needs to be raised. There’s a place for the anthology of scenes with no story to them. We all like to just get straight to the fucking at times but sometimes I want something that I’m going to want to sit through for 2 hours. A plot. A nice simple plug-n-play dime store plot is all I’m asking for. I know there are people out there making those. I think I’ve seen one or two of them but they tend to get buried under the mounds of repetitive plotless “story porn”s out there. OR at least throw us a curveball in the scenes. Change up the order of business a bit. Don’t go through the full range in every scene (seriously damn near every scene has oral, vaginal, and anal) build to the “every hole” scene maybe? Just a thought.

Of course, I’m kind of thinking about the full length movie and not so much what is being talked about below, which is mostly just scenes. Still, I kind of dig the scenes where it’s just a handjob or blowjob, or if I just happen to catch that section of a scene on RedTube or elsewhere. I didn’t used to get bothered by interracial scenes because I didn’t really think about it but yeah once someone pointed out to me how black men are depicted in the scenes I’ve always felt awkward about watching the scenes. I still do but they make me uncomfortable now and I have more and more of a tendency to avoid them.

So, who wants to start a porn company with me so we can make the sort of stuff we like?

sexcounts:

Weirdly coincidentally I was thinking about 2 of those points in the last 24 hours. The “porn formula” has bored the hell out of me soooo much. How is it that so much porn is made and 98% of the time it follows the exact same formula? Real world sex is probably ruined by people who follow it. I mean, seriously, why the hell would you pull out right before the best part? (This is, of course, provided you are either wearing a condom, she’s on birth control and you’re both clean, or trying to have a kid).

And the “blacks on blondes” porn point. It’s kinda how I feel about almost a porn with a black participant. For a while I thought that maybe I really had a racial bias in sex, but it’s just that 98% of porn featuring someone black portrays them as nasty and ghetto as hell to play on a white man’s fear of some “porch monkey” violating his wife.

mixiedoesit:

porncull:

Could we, please, try doing without some or all of the following for once? Just give it a try, see if we can get by without:

Freakishly long fingernails

Excessive eye makeup

The “blowjob—>vaginal—>{anal—>}{blowjob—>}facial cumshot” formula

Sex always being male-initiated and controlled — come on, what’s wrong the lady jumping her guy or wrestling to get on top?

The mindset that sex has to be degrading to women to be arousing

The idea that there’s something unusual and dirty about a woman who wants to get off

Sleazy asshole men

Picture sets that never show the man’s face, or really anything much apart from his dick

Male porn stars who aren’t even really physically attractive apart from their dicks (Possible exception for Ron Jeremy)

Creepy “blacks on blondes” porn that treats black men like animals and ends up coming across like some sort of beastiality porn for racists.

Pigtails

The obsession with 18 year-olds

The “schoolgirl” thing in general

If you read this far here is a sexy picture for you:

This is wonderful. It’s crazy because I was thinking the same exact things earlier today, especially about the freakishly long nails. Nobody likes nails on their genitals, much less INSIDE of them. And the overdone make-up and hair just screams “i’m really not that attractive.” Don’t get me wrong, I love porn. But the standards of todays industry need to change. While you can find any kind of porn out there, it doesn’t mean the same, boring cliches need to keep popping up everywhere. WE ARE GETTING BORED!

sexcounts: When I started this blog I said to myself that I...

Wed, 04 Mar 2009 13:33:34 -0500

sexcounts:

When I started this blog I said to myself that I would try to post some of everything and keep open minded but I’m really finding that it’s not that easy to even figure my own fetishes out. Example:

I’ve felt that there has to be some solo male or gay porn I might like. In my head I can make sense of it: tons of people watch straight porn of girls giving head and hand-jobs and we end up spending a lot of time staring at dicks. Couldn’t you take the girl out of the picture and still have it be a turn on?

And on plenty of occasions I’ve taken photos of myself nude or masturbating so I thought “if it’s a turn on for me to take the photos, maybe seeing others photos would be a turn on too.”

In theory it all sounds good in my head but when I try to look at it, it all just looks like a bunch of lame gay porn.

I feel you … I do …

Stfu Day: Elizabeth Hasselbeck Needs To STFU About Ashley Judd, Abortion

Fri, 27 Feb 2009 13:47:28 -0500

Stfu Day: Elizabeth Hasselbeck Needs To STFU About Ashley Judd, Abortion:

feminismisntdead:

sarahchristine:

I was of course watching live. I love The View. This was all kinds of ridiculous.

WHAT’S WORSE IS THAT SHE KEEPS FUCKING SPAWNING

I’ve seen The View a few times and I totally agree that Hasselbeck needs to STFU … but can we not limit it to just this topic? Can we just get her to STFU about everything, please? Pretty please? With sugar? And Bacon?

Erotica and Pornography

Fri, 27 Feb 2009 13:42:37 -0500

bentover:

dirtythoughts:

So, I work from home and while I work I often have Netflix Instant Watch or Hulu playing. Today I was watching the british comedy series Coupling. Funny show. I highly recommend it. Anyhow, I was watching this show and there was a discussion of the difference between Erotica and Pornography. It was very funny but it got me thinking about this rather old argument.

The man, attempting to defend his pornography, asked why if women find it a turn on it’s erotica and if men find it a turn on it’s pornography. But really, that’s not the question. You see, women like pornography. Look at Bend Me Over. Plenty of filthy smut show up there. Nothing wrong with it. Hell, I love it. Anyway the question boils down to not that women only like nice sexy things and men only like gross sexy things but that what women like is sexy and acceptable but what men like is dirty and shameful.

A man and a woman may like the same picture of a woman with a cock against her lips. If the man shares that he likes it he’s being gross and it’s porn or a dirty picture and he’s a bit of a loser for looking at porn instead of finding his lame ass a real woman. If a woman shares that she likes that same picture she’s liberated. It’s not porn, it’s just a damn sexy picture, maybe not art but then where do we draw the line at art anyway? Isn’t that arbitrary?

Anyway, I’m not saying people should stop thinking what they do about a woman digging a naughty picture. I’m complaining that a man liking the same item is perceived in an unfairly opposite manner. It’s not like the woman is enjoying the composition of the photo over that it makes her think about fucking. Both man and woman are looking at that picture and their naughty bits are twitching and for fuck’s sake it’s equally sexy or at least appreciable.

It’s just a bit of a pet peeve of mine that if a woman digs it it’s acceptable but if a man does it’s just typical.

These are the things I think about when I watch British Television instead of working.

THESE ARE MY (BENTOVER’S) COMMENTS Interesting. What about the point of view that women who like/have a lot of sex (with one or different and many men) are regarded as sluts, while men doing the same are seen as studs. (We’re talking sweeping generalizations, right?)

I’m a sexually hyper-charged female and guessing you’re a male. You’ve experienced women’s desires be accepted, and yours judged as dirty and shameful. I’ve experienced men’s desires be accepted, and mine dirtied and shamed.

We are divided in that we see the other as gender/another group being accepted, while we are both judged. We are divided and conquered, alone and fearful when we only look at our own truth. We are less fearful, less alone when we look at and consider another’s truth and experiences; we are made more whole because we understand, and then we see it is simply the human condition.

At least…that’s what I see..hehe

Here is the response I posted in the comments. I thought I’d repost here so as to share with more folks:

I don’t disagree with you that there is the perspective that promiscuous women are seen in a poor light and that that is wrong but in a way that is part of my point. Allow me, if I may to expand a bit on my perspective on this matter.

See, women who are very sexual are seen by some as sluts because of the regard our society has for female sexuality. We put female sexuality on a pedestal. This manifests in two ways oftentimes. When we are supportive of a woman’s freedom to experience herself as a sexual person we celebrate her promiscuity as liberating. When we are not supportive of that freedom we see promiscuity as degrading. This comes from the same perspective of women’s sexuality being special. Two reactions to the same perspective. In one case a woman’s promiscuity is her embracing of the specialness of her sexual being in the other case a woman’s promiscuity is demeaning her specialness because if it’s special you shouldn’t be sharing it with just anyone. The way I see it, and I could be wrong. Our society sees women’s sexuality as something special to be celebrated. I think this is the case with people who celebrate promiscuity and people who deride it. Same perspective different reaction.

Now, men’s sexuality tends to be not special. It’s expected. It’s base. It’s an outgrowth of bodily function. A man’s sexuality is quite like him taking a shit. You know he does it. He has to do it. But really you don’t want any details about it. Men’s sexuality isn’t special and so we see a similar division of reactions based on this perspective. On one hand you have people who see a man being promiscuous and call him a stud. He is being a man. He’s doing what he’s supposed to be doing. That is what a man does. On the other side you have people who view a man’s sexuality as something gross. There’s nothing special about a man wanting to/liking/ or having sex. It’s just what they do. So, when they do. They’re just gross. They are pigs. Slaves to their baser instincts. Neanderthals.

I don’t disagree with you but I think my point is the specialness of sexuality for each gender. I want my sexuality to be special too. Everyone’s sexuality is special and something we can take a bit of joy in.

Thanks for the response! I like a good discussion and I apologize for not responding sooner.

Speaking of my porn blog...

Fri, 27 Feb 2009 13:21:42 -0500

sarahchristine:

Will I be censored one of these days? Y’all gonna make me have a little “OVER 18 UNLESS YOU’RE HOT” warning?

I just thought I’d chime in on this here. I posted a comment but I wanted to share my thoughts with you folks here too also as well.

I worry about this a lot. I do my blogoporno and there are a lot of places that wouldn’t have me. They’d shut me down immediately. I moved off of blogspot to avoid getting shutdown. I didn’t carefully read the wordpress.com TOU and got shut down there. Tumblr is a great platform. Particularly for what I like to do, which is just share solo images I dig. If I got shut down on Tumblr it would suck pretty hard. So, I try to keep an eye on the Tumblr TOU to avoid waking up one morning to see my 18 months worth of posts have been whacked. So far the Tumblr folks seem to be letting us have our little islands of smut but I know from past experience that this is not something that lasts forever. Prudishness, not necessarily that of anyone working for Tumblr but someone out there’s prudishness, will rear it’s ugly head and those of us that dig the naughty pictures will be forced to either justify our existence or move on to another platform not yet polluted by those who want to sanitize the web.

claytoncubitt: Christian protesters at the inauguration, Gerry...

Sun, 25 Jan 2009 23:51:54 -0500

claytoncubitt:

Christian protesters at the inauguration, Gerry Canavan.

I proudly qualify for at least 7 of the above reasons for God to judge me.

Does that say Good People? I think that says Good People. Really? Really? Okay so the countdown of things I will be judged for:

Baby Killer (I think they include pretty much any Pro-Choice person in that statement, so I count. )
Liar
Atheist
Pervert!
Sodomite (do they mean gay or anyone who’s engaged in that which is defined as sodomy? I will just consider it the latter)
Drunkard
Money Lover
Hypocrite
Thief (I’ve been known to steal a thing or two but nothing huge)

What about you? How are you going to be judged? List the ways!